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Rooted in Radical Self-Trust: A Real-Time Pivot Ep79 Jess Tilly Interviews Me!

Rooted in Radical Self-Trust: A Real-Time Pivot Ep79 Jess Tilly Interviews Me!

Sometimes the best invitations are the ones you never saw coming.

This week’s episode is a little different—because I’m not the host. I’m the guest.

It all started when Jess Tilly—my dear friend, creative collaborator, and one of the most grounded sacral authorities I know—invited me to share my story on my podcast. I’ll be honest: my first reaction was hesitation. I told her, “I’ve already done that.” I’ve shared solo episodes before. I’ve talked about my Human Design journey. I’ve explored radical self-trust on this show.

But then something clicked.

I realized how hard those solo episodes had felt. How much more natural I am when there’s someone else in the room, someone drawing it out of me. And how different it is to tell your story when you’re not reciting it—you’re living it in real time.

So I said yes.

And what unfolded in this conversation with Jess was one of the most natural, honest, and creatively clarifying experiences I’ve had in a long time.

We talked about how this podcast came to be, how much has changed since it began, and the way radical self-trust has shown up not just as a theme—but as the very foundation of every pivot I’ve made. This wasn’t a “burn it all down” kind of shift. It was a moment of listening in, softening, and following the pull to reimagine what already exists.

I also shared something that might resonate if you’ve ever felt “too much” or “too scattered” for the world of entrepreneurship. As a triple split with a 6/2 profile, I’ve often second-guessed whether I needed to niche more, clarify more, simplify more. But here’s what I’m learning:

I get to love all of it.

I get to love mentoring and witnessing breakthroughs in real time.

I get to love podcasting and amplifying the stories that move me.

I get to love helping people dress in ways that reflect who they’ve become.

I get to love karma clearing through Human Design and understanding where old patterns live.

I get to love transits, seasons, and watching the sky speak in patterns.

None of it has to be sacrificed. None of it has to be sidelined.

Because as a 6th line off the roof, this is the work: to live it, model it, embody it.

My business isn’t just built around my life—it comes from my life. And I wouldn’t want it any other way.

I shared a metaphor in this episode that really sums it all up: how easy it is to chase what’s shiny and new, when the truth is, there’s gold we’ve already gathered. And maybe it’s not about starting over… maybe it’s time to polish up those old coins and let them shine.

That’s where I am now.

And as I ease into this next season of creativity, I’d love to hear from you:

  • What past episodes or themes do you want more of?

  • Would you like short clips from older episodes with new reflections?

  • Are you craving more mentoring stories, transit chats, or something totally new?

Your feedback helps me polish what matters most.

And speaking of polishing old gold—if you’re curious about the karmic patterns that might be holding you back, Jess and I are offering a free Karma by Design Masterclass on June 11 at 1:11 PM EDT. You’ll walk away with powerful insights about your chart and how to begin clearing what no longer serves you. If you can’t make it live, you’ll get the replay.

👉 Sign up here

Thank you, truly, for being here. Whether this is your first episode or you’ve listened to them all, your presence matters. You’re part of what keeps this gold shining.

💛 If this episode resonated with you, please share your favorite episodes, like, follow, subscribe, or leave a review. It really does make a difference—and your support is how this podcast continues to grow.

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