Feeling Done with the Struggle? Here’s Why, and What’s Waiting for You on the Other Side

If you’ve been feeling like you’re caught in a loop—one where you keep swinging back and forth between pushing forward and just wanting to give up, you’re definitely not alone. The energy swirling around us right now is tugging at all the old threads of struggle, purpose, and responsibility. It’s as if life is urging us to revisit those parts of ourselves that wonder: Why does this matter? What am I fighting for?

A look at the Energies of the Transits right now.

We’re right in the thick of it as the Sun has just moved into Gate 28.1—an energy that invites us to lean into life’s challenges, to see the struggle as a path to adventure. It’s the kind of vibe that has us asking ourselves, Is this worth it? and feeling restless when we can’t find a clear answer. But we’re not just being asked to face the struggle for the sake of it. At Line 1, the focus is on investigating and understanding what these struggles mean, digging into the roots of our fears and asking where we can find meaning, even when it’s hard to see. This energy will be with us for about six days as it moves through all six lines of the hexagram, offering us time to explore these questions deeply.

At the same time, Earth has moved into Gate 27.1, bringing a focus on responsibility and nourishment that is grounded in careful observation. Line 1 is all about studying and understanding our role in caring for others and ourselves, asking us to get to the bottom of how we give and receive support. This energy reminds us that true balance comes when we can give from a place of fullness, not depletion. As we navigate these next few days, it’s a chance to reflect on what needs nurturing and how we can fill our own cup before pouring into others’.

Transits Are Influential, But Not Defining

Remember, these transits bring influences that can shape the way we feel or perceive things, but they’re not a part of our definition. They are like a cosmic weather forecast—helpful to know, but not meant to dictate our actions. Instead, they’re energies we can use to move in the direction that our strategy and authority are already guiding us. This energy is here to support us in aligning with our own truth, not to replace it.

The Bigger Picture: What’s Adding to the Struggle

  1. North Node in Gate 17.3 and South Node in Gate 18.3:

    • This nodal axis has been with us for some time, influencing us to move between old patterns of judgment and new ways of seeing the world. The South Node in Gate 18 can bring up themes of self-criticism and perfectionism, making us hyper-aware of what feels wrong or broken. It’s that nagging feeling that you could always do better, even when you’re doing your best. Meanwhile, the North Node in Gate 17 is about shifting our perspective—finding clarity and farsightedness. This nodal shift is happening for us so that we can move beyond our tendency to pick things apart and embrace a broader, more open-minded perspective. It’s asking: Can you let go of needing to fix everything and trust in the bigger picture?

  2. Mercury in Gate 1.5 and Uranus in Gate 8.2 (Channel 1-8 Energy):

    • This connection between Mercury and Uranus brings a burst of creative expression and a desire to share your unique voice with the world. Mercury, the planet of communication, is amplifying our need to express individuality, while Uranus, as a generational influence, is pushing the collective toward authenticity and innovation. It’s happening for us so that we can each find our place within the broader changes taking shape. If you’ve been feeling a surge of inspiration followed by frustration when the ideas don’t flow quite right, this could be why. It’s a call to express yourself fully but to do so with patience—understanding that true creativity sometimes comes with a bit of chaos.

  3. Mars in Gate 62.6 Connecting to the North Node in Gate 17—Channel 17-62:

    • This energy focuses on precision and structure but can also make us feel trapped by the need to get things just right. Mars adds urgency and a drive to figure things out and communicate clearly, but with the North Node, it’s about learning to see beyond the details and into the bigger picture. It’s happening for us so that we can learn to trust that not every detail needs to be perfect for our message to be heard. It asks: Can you trust that what you’re sharing is enough, even if it’s not perfect?

  4. Venus in Gate 9.4—The Energy of Focus Amidst Distraction:

    • Venus in Gate 9 brings attention to focus and refinement, but it’s also a reminder to avoid becoming overly fixated. This energy asks us to find balance in the small things without letting them consume us. It’s happening for us so that we can learn to be present without getting lost in the minutiae. It’s about finding flow in our day-to-day lives and recognizing that we don’t have to have everything under control to feel at ease.

  5. Pluto in Gate 60.4—Transformation Within Limits (Generational):

    • Pluto in Gate 60 speaks to the collective experience of working within limits. This energy often makes us feel like we’re hitting a wall, constrained by circumstances beyond our control. But it’s not just about restriction—it’s about transformation. It’s happening for us so that we can learn to find freedom within boundaries, to see constraints as a way to focus our energy more effectively. On an individual level, this might show up as feeling like you’re constantly pushing against your own limits, but it’s actually an invitation to learn how to direct your energy where it truly matters.

How to Work with This Energy

Here are a few practical ways you can work with these energies over the next few days while staying true to your strategy and authority:

  • Lean into the Struggle: Instead of resisting the challenges that come up, try to see them as invitations to go deeper. When fear or uncertainty arises, ask yourself: What am I learning about myself through this struggle? Can you reframe it as a chance to build resilience or explore what really matters to you?

  • Ground Yourself in Nourishment: With the Earth in Gate 27, make sure you’re prioritizing your own well-being. Find small ways to fill your own cup—whether it’s taking a walk, enjoying a quiet moment, or saying “no” to something that drains you. Ask yourself: How can I give from a place of fullness, rather than obligation?

  • Focus Without Fixating: Venus in Gate 9 asks us to pay attention to what needs our focus, but not to get lost in it. If you find yourself getting caught up in the little details, take a step back and ask: Am I focusing on what truly matters, or am I getting stuck in the weeds? Remember, progress doesn’t always come from perfect focus—it comes from steady, consistent steps.

  • See the Bigger Picture: If you’re feeling the pressure to get everything just right, take a moment to pause and consider the broader vision. This week’s energy is a reminder that perfection isn’t required to make an impact. Can you trust that even your imperfect efforts are leading you toward something bigger?

Feeling Overwhelmed? Let’s Go Deeper Together

If you’re finding yourself feeling extra overwhelmed by all these shifts, or if you’re ready to dive deeper into what’s coming up for you personally, I invite you to book a reading to help bring clarity and direction. We can explore how you can move forward with more confidence and ease. When you’re ready, I’m here to support you.

A Reminder: You’re Not Alone in This

If you want to dive deeper into these themes, explore what’s coming up for you, or just find a space to share your thoughts, join me in my private Facebook group. It’s a place where we support each other through the ups and downs, and remind each other that the struggle is just one part of the journey.

And remember, you can always find the details of the current transits right here on my homepage. Let’s keep navigating this energy together, with all the grace and grit it asks of us.

Kathy Bochonko

Human Design Analyst and Mentor

QHD Specialist

QAS Practitioner

Tarot Reader

6/2 Emotional Projector

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